You weren't put on this earth to be everyone's emotional support system.
You know that feeling when someone asks you for something and "yes" comes out of your mouth before you've even had a chance to think? When you're so attuned to everyone else's needs, moods, and expectations that you've forgotten what your own feel like? When you look in the mirror and barely recognize the woman staring back because she's been playing supporting roles in everyone else's stories for so long?
If you're constantly shrinking yourself to make others comfortable, swallowing your truth to keep the peace, and living your life on mute while everyone around you gets to be at full volume, it's time for something to change.
You weren't born to be small. You were put on this earth to do BIG things! And yet, somewhere along the way, you learned that your worth was measured by how much you could do for others, how little space you could take up, how quiet you could be.
I work specifically with women who have given their power away—piece by piece, year by year—until they wake up one day feeling like a stranger in their own life. Women who have become masters at reading the room, predicting what others need, and contorting themselves into whatever shape will keep everyone else happy.
But here's what I know: You are not a supporting character. You are the main character of your own story, and it's time to start acting like it.
Together, we'll explore:
Why you silence yourself and what it would feel like to finally speak your truth
The roots of your people-pleasing patterns and the beliefs that keep you trapped in them
How to recognize when you're giving your power away and practical strategies to take it back
The difference between genuine kindness and self-abandonment so you can be generous without losing yourself
How to set boundaries that protect your energy without drowning in guilt
Ways to reconnect with your authentic desires beneath all the "shoulds" and expectations
Tools to tolerate other people's disappointment without crumbling or caving
How to become the author of your own story instead of letting others write your narrative
This work isn't about becoming selfish or uncaring. It's about remembering that you matter too. It's about learning that "no" is a complete sentence. It's about discovering that people who truly love you will still be there when you stop performing for them.
We'll create a space where you can practice having a voice—where your opinions, your feelings, your needs are not just tolerated but celebrated. Where you don't have to earn your worth by being useful. Where you can explore what it feels like to take up space without apologizing for it.
This approach is for you if:
You're exhausted from being everything to everyone
You struggle to say no without feeling crushing guilt
You've lost touch with who you really are beneath all the roles you play
You're tired of being the peacekeeper, the good girl, the one who never makes waves
You want to stop living for everyone else's approval
You're ready to remember that your story deserves a powerful protagonist—and that protagonist is you
You've spent enough time in the shadows of other people's lives. You've played small for long enough. The world doesn't need another woman who has mastered the art of disappearing. It needs you—messy, imperfect, beautifully, unapologetically YOU.
Let's work together to help you step into the main character role of your own life.
Investment:
50-55 minute in person (St Louis) or virtual appointments
$175/session
Aetna insurance accepted